S.A.H.M (Sensationally Audacious Homebound Mom)

A mom just trying to find her way in the chaos of ‘everydayness’

Happy Birthday B June 21, 2008

Filed under: Things That Make Me Go HMMM — Hattie @ 4:37 pm
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Last night, one of my oldest friends and myself celebrated her 32nd birthday….we have known each other since we were eleven….it’s be many years of birthdays.  In the past it was sleep overs and waterslide parties.  Last night it was dinner, a movie and midnight maddness at Ikea!  We managed to get to Ikea at 10 pm last night.  Silly me.  I couldn’t imagine who else would be out so late at night to shop on a Friday night in June.  Apparently, the city was out to shop late at night!  The parking lot was so full, I was almost in the next stores parking.  There were so many people there it was crazy busy.  There were so many families there I was amazed.  The kids were all great too.  No screamers….that’s because my kids were at home in bed!  I don’t think I would bring my toddler out to shop so late at night, but many were there, sleeping in carts.  I shoped alot.  I got some great deals.  It was so nice to take my time.  To feel things.  To think.  Just think.  Not to wipe, clean, feed, water, entertain all while thinking.  We stayed the full two hours until closing.  The lines were long.  The drive home in the wee hours of the next morning was beautiful.  The moon was so huge and yellow in the sky. 

Unloading the boxes from the van is S’s job today.  I don’t know how we managed to shove a book shelf, a patio set and various other smaller items in my van, but we did it.  Now, we just have to unpack and assembe.  Should be fun.  I think the girls and I will go to the splash park and let S do the assembly.

I am happy to have a friend from all those years ago that is still in my life.  She knows me better than my husband does I am sure.  She is my best friend from the day, and I love her.

 

Hot Date June 19, 2008

Filed under: Love and Marriage — Hattie @ 4:26 pm
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This past Tuesday S and I had a date.  A good old fashioned, dinner and movie date.  It was great.  We went to this little Irish pub.  We had fish and chips and played cribbage.  We shared a chocolate lava cake.  It was so nice.  We then went to the cheap show and watched The Happening.  Now, alot of people had told us this was a bad movie.  Not really worth spending money on to see.  I however, love M.Night Shamylan’s stuff and really wanted to see this movie.  His movies aren’t to alot of people’s liking…maybe alot of people don’t like to think too much while they are being entertained…I get that.  I love how his movies have many different layers…kind of like a parfait or an onion (sorry, watching Shrek lately).  The movie was graffically violent in spots.  Not regular violence though.  Suicides.  It was tough to watch and I admit, I cowered a couple of times.  The over all move was wonderful though.  I loved it.  Of course, it could be that I don’t get out much, especially with S. 

We capped the night off with a trip to Walmart.  Diapers and wipes and snacks …oh my.  How could we spend time without the kids and not hit our favorite store!  It is so much nicer to not have the kids with me while I shop.  I think a great date for me would be Costco, Safeway and then Walmart!    I know…I am too silly and so easy to please.